Episode 119

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Published on:

30th Apr 2024

The Magic of Human Connection - Brian Miller, Magician, TEDx Speaker, Author

Summary

Brian Miller believes everyone deserves to feel heard, understood, and valued. He is a former magician turned author, speaker, and consultant on human connection. Today, Brian works with organizations and educators who want to build connected cultures.  

He is the author of Three New People, a manifesto on human connection that Publishers Weekly said, “Brilliantly outlines a system for deepening relationships.” Brian’s podcast Beyond Networking cracked the Top 200 under ‘careers’ on Apple. And his TEDx talk “How to Magically Connect with Anyone” has been viewed 3.5 million times.

After meeting Brian, audiences are not just inspired to join the human connection revolution - they’re ready to lead it.

Brian shares his personal journey with magic and how it helped him overcome social anxiety. We explore the importance of understanding others' perspectives and beliefs in sales and communication.

Some people don't realize the idea that despite our differences, we all want the same things in life and can find common ground.

Takeaways you'll get - the power of asking meaningful questions to deepen conversations, techniques for remembering names, and emphasizes the importance of making people feel understood and valued. The conversation concludes with Brian sharing a personal story that taught him the power of perspective taking and understanding others.

Key Moments:

00:00 Introduction to the Sell By Being Human podcast

01:25 The Power of Human Connection

07:03 The Emotional Impact of Magic

14:04 Brian's Journey with Magic

23:02 Understanding Perspectives in Sales

27:52 Connecting Beyond Agreement

29:09 Finding Common Ground: Connecting Despite Differences

31:24 The Power of Meaningful Questions

34:48 Remembering Names: Making People Feel Valued

40:46 Perspective Taking: Understanding and Connecting with Others

43:36 Beyond Empathy: Making People Feel Understood

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About the Podcast

Sell By Being Human
On the Sell By Being Human podcast, award-winning sales professional Alex Smith provides the proven way to harness your innate human skills like empathy, curiosity, and kindness to learn how to sell and navigate the sales journey.
This is where human connection and sales meet. You may be someone whose success depends on influence, negotiation, and your ability to create change, but you may reject aggressive sales tactics. Maybe you feel stuck in corporate "autopilot," knowing your best asset is your genuine personality, but you struggle to use it to get what you want. Then this channel is for you.

It will teach you how to close the gap between wanting to be ethical and feeling pressured to sell aggressively. You’ll also learn actionable strategies for translating emotional intelligence into high-trust results. Join Alex and top guests, including NY Times bestsellers, keynote speakers, and global founders, as they prove that being truly human is the ultimate sales advantage.

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Alex Smith

Alex Smith is a seasoned sales professional and podcast host who champions a human-first approach to selling. With nearly two decades of experience, he explores how empathy, curiosity, and genuine connection drive influence in everyday life. Through his podcast, he highlights stories from people across all professions, showing that anyone can persuade and create impact simply by being human.