Episode 124

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Published on:

20th Nov 2024

How Salespeople Lose By Projecting Perfect - Coach Dan Gordon, Consultant

Summary:

In this episode, I interview Coach Dan Gordon, an executive business coach and host of the podcast For Badass Entrepreneurs Only. We discuss the importance of selling authentically and the impact of human connection in sales. Miriam Webster's Dictionary rated authenticity the #`1 word last year so it goes without saying it's overused. We actually break down what it is and isn't in sales.

Coach Dan emphasizes the need for salespeople to show up with authenticity and share their true thoughts and feelings. He believes that deeper connections and trust are formed when people drop their armor and have honest conversations.

The conversation also touches on the relationship between sales and personal relationships, the power of unlimited possibilities, and the value of embracing failure as a path to success. We also explore the importance of understanding the buyer's perspective and demonstrating value in sales. We dive into the role of fear in sales and the importance of asking for what you want. Dan shares his insights on trauma and its impact on self-perception, as well as the four pillars that entrepreneurs often struggle with: sleep, stress, focus, and performance.

Finally Dan offers a free week of a sleep improvement tool called New Calm.

Key Moments:

00:00 Introduction to Coach Dan Gordon

02:50 Selling Authentically and Building Trust

07:05 The Relationship Between Sales and Personal Relationships

10:46 Embracing Unlimited Possibilities in Sales and Life

15:00 The Role of Personal Development in Success

23:42 Understanding the Buyer's Perspective and Demonstrating Value in Sales

26:44 Overcoming Fear and Asking for What You Want

27:29 The Impact of Trauma on Self-Perception and Personal Growth

32:06 The Four Pillars Entrepreneurs Struggle With: Sleep, Stress, Focus, and Performance

35:34 Recommendation: New Calm - A Sleep Improvement Tool

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About the Podcast

Sell By Being Human
On the Sell By Being Human podcast, award-winning sales professional Alex Smith provides the proven way to harness your innate human skills like empathy, curiosity, and kindness to learn how to sell and navigate the sales journey.
This is where human connection and sales meet. You may be someone whose success depends on influence, negotiation, and your ability to create change, but you may reject aggressive sales tactics. Maybe you feel stuck in corporate "autopilot," knowing your best asset is your genuine personality, but you struggle to use it to get what you want. Then this channel is for you.

It will teach you how to close the gap between wanting to be ethical and feeling pressured to sell aggressively. You’ll also learn actionable strategies for translating emotional intelligence into high-trust results. Join Alex and top guests, including NY Times bestsellers, keynote speakers, and global founders, as they prove that being truly human is the ultimate sales advantage.

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Alex Smith

Alex Smith is a seasoned sales professional and podcast host who champions a human-first approach to selling. With nearly two decades of experience, he explores how empathy, curiosity, and genuine connection drive influence in everyday life. Through his podcast, he highlights stories from people across all professions, showing that anyone can persuade and create impact simply by being human.